Monday, 23 July 2012

Atheism disscussion in Second Life.

Following a chat with people near and dear to me about religion... here are some sources which put iron in my words.

Firstly, why bother? Angry at god?
No, if I get angry it is because religion kills people, religious people make decisions which effect me, and you. If I'm angry, I have good reason, not nearly as much reason as many of the people I know in SL should have.
The list of things to be angry about starts at 6:00

Why Are You Atheists So Angry? Greta Christina Skepticon 4

As for the idea that Jesus was angel who was believed in by some pre-Christian Jews... Richard Carrier mentions it here [16:07]. Unfortunately he cites his own book for the citations-- which i don't have. And I have not been able to find any reference to it elsewhere. In fact it is usually said that Philo of Alexandria never mentions Jesus. So I'd would love to see some discussion between scholars about this. But If Carrier says it, there is probably a discussion to be had.

Richard Carrier: The Historicity of Jesus

As for Hitler and the Nazis, Christians used to be scared of the occult, so they labeled him an oculist. Now they are terrified of Atheists so they call him an Atheist. It is indisputable he was Catholic. The writings of Martin Luther obviously had more impact that folkish paganism.  
Hitler: The Atheist

By the way, Christians are also blaming Nazism on Darwin and Evolution. But in Hitler's own words he seems to have been against Evolution and a proponent of Intelligent Design.

As for nasty stuff in the bible, there is no end of it in the Old Testament, but what would Jesus do?

"Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them."
I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished."

So... until heaven and earth disappear, until the rapture, old testament law stands, every pen-stroke of it...

...that includes the hating on gays, rules on masturbation, prohibition on shell fish and pork, prohibition on wearing mixed fabrics, rules on slavery, idol worship, etc.

Are we sure? I mean is that what he meant? Even the nasty stuff about stoning children to death?

You have let go of the commands of God and are holding on to the traditions of men.
And he said to them: "You have a fine way of setting aside the commands of God in order to observe your own traditions!
For Moses said, 'Honor your father and your mother,' and, 'Anyone who curses his father or mother must be put to death.'"

But surely Jesus loves all the little children... If I was going to start a religion, the first rule I would put in would be the protection of children!

And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life.

Oh, I see. We are supposed to abandon our children. How silly of me. This is probably because whoever made up this nonsense thought that the world was about to end.

“Don't imagine that I came to bring peace on earth! No, rather a sword lf you love your father, mother, sister, brother, more than me, you are not worthy of being mine.“ 

Sounds abusive to me. But then the new testament is infinitely worse than any of the rape and slaughter of the old testament.  It introduces an entirely new concept, the idea that the only way to find salvation is blind unquestioning devotion to Jesus, the ONLY alternative to this is eternal torture. I'm not sure I could really condone torture under any circumstances, but for eternity? Not much of a choice is it.

Fred Phelps and his family are doing it right. They know and understand the bible, they don't just cherry-pick the bits they like, or that suit them. Their views are entirely consistent with what the bible actually says. The reason they seem bat-shit crazy is that the bible is a bat-shit crazy book of hateful bad ideas.

Talk to me about biblical morality? This is a set of rules that say that rapists have to marry their victims, and you can be stoned to death for picking up sticks on the wrong day.

It is a book where Jesus has tantrums and murders fig trees for being out of season and where god sends bears to kill children. A book of talking donkeys in a flat world with a metal sky. Fairy stories which have no place being used as a standard by which to judge modern life.

Okay, slightly less relevant, here is a 'quick and dirty' overview of the historicity of Jesus which mentions Jesus of Pandera, who I think could have been an attempt to make a mythical Jesus human in order to kill him as a heretic.

David Fitzgerald ~ Examining he Existence of Jesus

...and professor Hector Avolos (Starts at 2:35) continued here
Hector Avalos: How Archeology Killed Biblical History

  And Dr. Robert Price

Saturday, 14 July 2012

To be loved

Someone to care, someone to share lonely hours...

Jackie Wilson ~ To be loved ~ live performance

Rockabilly Summer

Maurice Williams and the Zodiacs ~ Stay

Thursday, 12 July 2012

Political Correctness gone mad

[14:36:25] 乙σ Aυяуη (zornnorseman): sooo Never?
[14:36:29] 乙σ Aυяуη (zornnorseman): your a fairy?
[14:36:30] Never Sieyes: yes?
[14:36:33] Never Sieyes: nope
[14:36:37] Never Sieyes: i can be tho
[14:37:05] νicky Caramel (vinny.caramel): talk about the pot calling the kettle black
[14:37:11] 乙σ Aυяуη (zornnorseman): omg
[14:37:15] 乙σ Aυяуη (zornnorseman): evil vicks!
[14:37:40] 乙σ Aυяуη (zornnorseman): vicky and kovu have a tendancy to make me say stuff that come back to BITE me

Edited for clarity.

Now it feels like summer

Never on Vicky

Bo Street Runners ~ Baby never say goodbye

Linn on Never

Monday, 9 July 2012

Trolling fail

-- Instant message logging enabled --
[10:00:06] Miss Christel (christel7): seen your site; sorry yuo are fat and i hate that
[10:00:24] Miss Christel (christel7): ugly as welll
[10:00:28] Miss Christel (christel7): ejoy sl
[10:01:03] Vinny Caramel: haha
[10:01:21] Miss Christel (christel7): get lost fat jady you look horrible
[10:01:29] Miss Christel (christel7): muted ugly woman

I suppose I brought it on myself posting that I am done with Sissies. I suspect I'll now get abuse from random female impersonators from time-to-time... at least that is the only reason I can think of for this ill-thought-out attempt at trolling me. Unless it's jealousy, or an attempt at Domme Breaking?

Anyway, I post it here for your amusement.

Sunday, 8 July 2012

I'm done with sissies

If you are a sissy, the answer is 'No, I will not be your friend'.

It's nothing personal, you are probably a lovely guy... but I'm prejudiced.

The word prejudice means to pre-judge, and based on past experience it makes complete sense for me to assume that if you are a sissy you will follow this pattern of of behaviour:-

1. Beg me to be their Mistress.
2. Ask to be friends anyway.
3. Beg me to be your Mistress and hang around as if I was.
4. Sulk.
5. Drop hints that your want me to be your Mistress.
6. Sulk some more.
7. Ask me what I would do with you if I were their Mistress.
6. Drop more hints that your want me to be their Mistress.
8. Ask me to set you some tasks.
9. Not do the tasks, presumably because the tasks weren't sexual in nature.
10. Ask me repeatedly why I don't take sissies.
11. Sulk.
12. Ask me If I can help find a Mistress.
13. Pester me for more tasks.
14. Ask my advice on finding a Mistress.
15. Ingnore my advice.
16. Ask me if I have friends that might be a Mistress.
17. Ask me to describe in detail what I do with my girls.
18. Whine and complain.
19. Make bitchy comments.
20. Ask me repeatedly why I don't take sissies.
21. Offer excuses when I offer suggestions about how to find a mistress.

22. Then either ignore me when it becomes apparent I will never be their Mistress, or throw a hissy fit.

On past experience, sissies seem incapable of being friends. They are just trying to get a foot in the door, they use you without offering anything in return. They are completely pathetic, moody, lacking in humour and a complete waste of space. They also tend toward bitterness, paranoia and a persecution complex. They are relentless in their pestering, their demands and they drag me down.

...and they wonder why they can't find a Mistress?

Oh sure, there are exceptions. I have known Dominant sissies that are great, I know cross dressers and transgendered who are not really sissies and play women, no problem. But if I play the odds, I'm not going to allow sissies into my Second Life.

I'm playing the odds, so don't blame me, blame all the other sissies that have acted like complete cunts.

I'll add one more thing ~ I do like men! But I'm not here for men. If I was here for men, I'd be interested in men that act like men, not men who what to dress in pink frilly stuff and act pathetic. I find nothing remotely attractive about sissies.

So please, don't even try. And if you are wondering why you can't find a Mistress, read my words and ask yourself if it applies to you.

I am aware of the irony in this. I have previously complained about the fact that most women looking for a Mistress are actually men. I don't actually have any problem with with men pretending to be women (so long as they don't try to take me for a ride), it's okay if they do a decent job of acting like women because I like women as a rule. But sissies act like pathetic men. I dislike pathetic people of any gender.

Thursday, 5 July 2012

Dangerous people! (and how to guard against them).

I'm sure we have seen on the news about on-line pedophile rings, and how there are dozens of them worldwide, and how they get children to do stuff... and more recently how they get women to play along and do their bidding.

I have always wondered about this. I don't wonder how they groom women  to end up doing despicable things they wouldn't have dreamed of at the beginning. Thats actually no great mystery, they use people's natural commitment to consistency, to lead them in, they normalize, they allow them to justify... it's pretty much how cults work.

No, what I always wondered is how these pedophiles find each other? They can't exactly advertise it openly. I doubt there is some form of secret handshake either, or handkerchief in the back pocket. Any such signal or sign would soon be known. They must just be able to spot each other maybe? No, that makes no sense, if you could spot a pedophile we could develop a test.

So I always wondered how they meet and find each other because during my time on the internet I have seen very little which is suspicious.

I need wonder no more!

I had a very creepy conversation with somebody the other day, they started talking to me, and the conversation strayed into RL stuff... and frankly, the conversation stayed completely kosher, because I am completely kosher. But it could have so easily have gone bad. It ended up with me getting a load of "What would you do in my situation" type questions. If I had said, "You know, thats kinda hot" instead of "Oh poor you, you can't allow that", I strongly suspect they would have agreed.

...but I could be wrong. And thats the fucking point! Taken on face value, it was a completely innocent conversation!

I never take things at face value, I always look for a subtext. I'm good at it, it's why I can be a Domme and in this case I assume the worst and I strongly suspect that I was being probed by a pedophile.

But there is NOTHING for me to hang this on. The person concerned could completely deny it. If fact, they don't have to even completely deny it... they could say, "So what? I was fishing for roleplay. I have incest fantasies, I was too embarrassed to mention it straight out".

It's true... incest fantasy is extremely common, as is rape fantasy, mother/daughter, father/son... just look how many groups there are with names like, Legal Teens for Older Men, Young Sluts for Cougars, Filthy School Girls... yadda, yadda, yadda. Not to mention Adult Baby sitting services and a whole grey area which is near the knuckle (which is the point) but essentially harmless.

So what was different about this?

Firstly it was purely talking about Real Life. Secondly, If I'm right about them,  I don't think they wanted anything from me except a confederate. They were not trying to groom be to be their victim, they were testing me to see if I was like them!

That is the really scary part. I could freak out, question why they picked on me, wonder if I give off a pedophile vibe, but I won't. The simple fact is that I'm a Mommy Domme. At the time I was in a place where I was showing out as a Domme for older and younger people into BDSM. So if a nonce is going go fishing anywhere...

What is scary is that pedophiles are predators. And I was never in any danger of being prey. They were testing me to see if I was like they are. If that is how they talk to a Domme, how do they talk to subs? This person was kinda smart, charming, humble, open, I could see how they could with enough time, be very manipulative.

It's worrying, but frankly there is nothing I can do. All I have is, "That person gives me a bad vibe, I would treat them with caution". And saying that makes me look bad, as I found out earlier.

So there is no dilemma, I'm powerless. Short of going in undercover, possibly for months... there is nothing I can do but walk away and try and forget about it.

...there is just one thing I can do, that is remind you that there are nasty people out there. You have to be careful.

How do you be careful? How about 'never give them your personal information so they can't find you', how about simple rules like that?

No, thats no good!

I'll tell you why, firstly because relying on rules like that give you a false sense of security, especially as finding where you live is not what they are after. You are guarding against the wrong thing. And besides, if you have ever seen somebody like Darren Brown, you will realize that it is easy enough to trick people into giving them little parts of the puzzle over time.

What you really need to guard against is being slowly sucked in. You may think you are too smart for that... but actually, it is the dumb people who are harder to sucker. Smart principled people are far better easier to manipulate, and they are far better at making up excuses for themselves.

Yeah really! It's why cults are full of smart people.

But what cults also do is cut people off from their families and friends. This is because friends and family are normal and grounded in reality. They are a stark contrast the craziness. They don't even need to tell you you are being a loony, they stand as an example.

There is safety in numbers. Have one, two maybe even three friends that you tell everything to. Listen to their judgment because they won't be there getting suckered in with you, they won't hear all the smooth talk. But they will take an overview and tell you you are being crazy.

If you don't have friends you can talk to, imagine you do. Imagine I'm your friend, (if you are reading this I probably am). Would you be comfortable confiding in me what you just did... without explanation or justification or excuses? If you straight up told me what you just did, would I tell you you are crazy or sick?

I like to play into RL and I ask girls to do some pretty outrageous things, I even do a few outrageous things myself... but nobody gets hurt, and  I ensure everybody stays safe and legal. More importantly, even though I keep my girl's secrets, they don't have to. They can tell whoever they like, I'm proud of what I do. Would I be happy saying what I do into a group chat? Sure.


This doesn't deserve a separate blog post ~ if you come up to me and tell me that smoking is bad for my health... seriously, what kind of reaction are you expecting. Do you think I will laugh and hug you?

Expect me to take an instant dislike to you.

Tuesday, 3 July 2012

Wake up!

Oh things are so quiet! Need some happy noise.

Laurel Aitken & the Soulmen ~ Last Night