By Monica
I thought it might help to put some of my random chaotic thoughts into words.
A Domme has your best interests in mind, She knows whats best for you and how to help control your inner most desires and fears, for someone like me She is strong in all the ways I am not. Makes me feel safe and secure. I'm happy making others happy. I'm happy knowing I can make her day a little better when we are together. I admit I don't know everything and I don't have all the answers and I'm going to mess up but, but she will help me and guide me and make me into a better person.
I think a Domme and sub complete each other, each of us gets an outlet for the things we need. Regardless how good a relationship may be without a Miss it's a very empty existence. I don't really know how to explain that very well I just know being owned, giving myself completely to someone is something that I need. I guess it's like air I cant really explain air I just need it. Maybe I wouldn't die without a Domme in my life, but a part of me a huge part of me would certainly feel as though it did die.
She is my world.
Wednesday, 17 April 2013
Sunday, 14 April 2013
What is virtual domination?
What is RL Domination, Virtual Domination, Remote Domination. I have always been reluctant to give too much away because I don't want to ruin the surprise, but now maybe it is time to reveal more about it.
There are no prizes for guessing that I tell you to do stuff via the computer, and you do it there, where you are in the real world.
This could involve just about anything -- I have had a girl drive down Route 66 waving her panties out of the window, I have had a girl wear an adult diaper and pee herself in a shopping mall. I have had girls moosh fruit with their feet (and other parts), I have had them climb trees with no underwear on, and I have had them go out in public wearing underwear made from plastic bags.
Before I go on, I should say a bit about my style. I'm not a sadist, I don't make girls do things they absolutely hate. In fact I am the opposite, I like to find out what makes somebody tick and press all their buttons. So what I do with a girl depends very much on the girl. I will find out what really excites her and I will get my pleasure by taking her there. I get off on trust and on power... to me real power is having the ability to affect somebody's emotions and change the way they feel about them self.
And so I may angle my tasks to make a sub feel good about themselves, or I could humiliate them. It may be that they crave excitement in which case I will do things that give them a thrill, or they may wish to be desired, lusted after and to behave like a little slut.
Things will also depend on the girl's circumstances. Some girls are single and live alone, others have a family. Some are out at work during the day, others are stuck at home. Some like to go walking in the woods, some like the city. Whatever the situation, I will come up with imaginative and fun things to do. Some will be spectacular and some mundane. Mundane things may include letting me choose their underwear (if any), their clothes, or even what they have for dinner... some girls just like me to make decision for them.
I do very much like to play games. I might sometimes give a girl three different tasks of varying difficulty and gamble to see which she does. Sometimes I may have a girl do all three humiliating tasks and gamble to see which ones she sends me photos of.
Oh yes, there will be photos! Unless a girl particularly wants to be my porn star, then I don't require a stream of pornography, but I will require some photographic evidence. If you don't have a camera or webcam then don't even apply.And I don't start off slowly either, I have far to many men pretending to be women who waste my time. So I will require photos straight away that prove you are female and prove you are brave enough to play my games.
There are limitations to this game. It is hard to do pain without being very creative. Obviously there is no physical contact and no meetings, and I don't want to know anyone's real identity unless they want me to blackmail them. In fact, safety is the primary concern -- obviously sometimes a hint of danger is fun but this stuff is not worth ruining anyone's life over. Rule #1 is don't get caught. I should also mention that I am very selfish and don't like to share my toys. There are some girls who would like me to humiliate them by showing them off to people but i don't like to do that. I like secrets and for a girl to trust me completely, to share things with me that she would never share with another living soul. I want to get them to a stage where they would do practically anything I ask and deny me nothing.
So why do it? Because very few of us are in a position to enter a D/s relationship in the real world -- and this is as close as you can get. Life is too short to deny yourself. I would almost say it is as close as you can get to the real thing, but make no mistake, it is the real thing and it is hugely rewarding.
There are no prizes for guessing that I tell you to do stuff via the computer, and you do it there, where you are in the real world.
This could involve just about anything -- I have had a girl drive down Route 66 waving her panties out of the window, I have had a girl wear an adult diaper and pee herself in a shopping mall. I have had girls moosh fruit with their feet (and other parts), I have had them climb trees with no underwear on, and I have had them go out in public wearing underwear made from plastic bags.
Before I go on, I should say a bit about my style. I'm not a sadist, I don't make girls do things they absolutely hate. In fact I am the opposite, I like to find out what makes somebody tick and press all their buttons. So what I do with a girl depends very much on the girl. I will find out what really excites her and I will get my pleasure by taking her there. I get off on trust and on power... to me real power is having the ability to affect somebody's emotions and change the way they feel about them self.
And so I may angle my tasks to make a sub feel good about themselves, or I could humiliate them. It may be that they crave excitement in which case I will do things that give them a thrill, or they may wish to be desired, lusted after and to behave like a little slut.
Things will also depend on the girl's circumstances. Some girls are single and live alone, others have a family. Some are out at work during the day, others are stuck at home. Some like to go walking in the woods, some like the city. Whatever the situation, I will come up with imaginative and fun things to do. Some will be spectacular and some mundane. Mundane things may include letting me choose their underwear (if any), their clothes, or even what they have for dinner... some girls just like me to make decision for them.
I do very much like to play games. I might sometimes give a girl three different tasks of varying difficulty and gamble to see which she does. Sometimes I may have a girl do all three humiliating tasks and gamble to see which ones she sends me photos of.
Oh yes, there will be photos! Unless a girl particularly wants to be my porn star, then I don't require a stream of pornography, but I will require some photographic evidence. If you don't have a camera or webcam then don't even apply.And I don't start off slowly either, I have far to many men pretending to be women who waste my time. So I will require photos straight away that prove you are female and prove you are brave enough to play my games.
There are limitations to this game. It is hard to do pain without being very creative. Obviously there is no physical contact and no meetings, and I don't want to know anyone's real identity unless they want me to blackmail them. In fact, safety is the primary concern -- obviously sometimes a hint of danger is fun but this stuff is not worth ruining anyone's life over. Rule #1 is don't get caught. I should also mention that I am very selfish and don't like to share my toys. There are some girls who would like me to humiliate them by showing them off to people but i don't like to do that. I like secrets and for a girl to trust me completely, to share things with me that she would never share with another living soul. I want to get them to a stage where they would do practically anything I ask and deny me nothing.
So why do it? Because very few of us are in a position to enter a D/s relationship in the real world -- and this is as close as you can get. Life is too short to deny yourself. I would almost say it is as close as you can get to the real thing, but make no mistake, it is the real thing and it is hugely rewarding.
Thursday, 4 April 2013
Wednesday, 3 April 2013
Finest Fuzzy Texas Garage Punk
Kenny And The Kasuals - Revelations
Kenny And The Kasuals - Come on Kid
Nobody's Children ~ Good Times
The Sparkles ~ I Want to be Free
The 13th Floor Elevators ~ Scarlet and Gold
Sunday, 17 February 2013
FIN *Relive the fifties*
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| Vintage Dress April |
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| Retro Capri Pants and Rockabilly Cherry Button Down Shirt |
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| Retro Capri Pants and Rockabilly Cherry Button Down Shirt |
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| Swimsuit Blue and FIN Classic Shoes (Blue) |
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| Retro Flower Party Dress |
Wednesday, 13 February 2013
Bombing of Dresden
We are in the anniversary of the fire bombing, another year has gone by without an apology from the British government.
Britain had suffered the blitz and it had not broken our spirit, there was no sane reason to believe that destroying German cities would break the German's spirit. But even if it had, there was no reason to believe that the broken spirits of German women, children, old people, would change Hitler's mind.
There were no soldiers in Dresden. It was full of the civilians who lived there, and civilians who were sheltering there as refugees. Even if firebombing cities had been been a successful tactic, it would be an end that the means just do not justify. According to the leaders we have had in recent years, targeting civilians can never be justified... it is terrorism. It has been described as cowardly and 'evil'.
It would be healthy for Britain to acknowledge our hypocrisy and to issue a formal apology.
I wasn't alive at the time. My relatives had no part in this, they had no say in this, I bare not guilt or blame. But I am British and so this was done in my name. I think the British people are owed an apology along with the people of Dresden.
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| We started the war as the good guys... |
There were no soldiers in Dresden. It was full of the civilians who lived there, and civilians who were sheltering there as refugees. Even if firebombing cities had been been a successful tactic, it would be an end that the means just do not justify. According to the leaders we have had in recent years, targeting civilians can never be justified... it is terrorism. It has been described as cowardly and 'evil'.
It would be healthy for Britain to acknowledge our hypocrisy and to issue a formal apology.
I wasn't alive at the time. My relatives had no part in this, they had no say in this, I bare not guilt or blame. But I am British and so this was done in my name. I think the British people are owed an apology along with the people of Dresden.
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